The title “Me and You” by Niccolo Ammaniti’s latest novel prompts expectations of yet another story of love and romance, but it is something more unusual. Translated, from Italian, by Kylee Doust, this is original, well-written and thought-provoking piece of fiction about adolescents’ problems and their complex relationships. The author takes us on a remarkable journey through the fear of future responsibilities that awaits young people, self -criticism, and self-indulgence familiar to that age group. Ammaniti writes about the adolescence fiercely and sympathetically. His 14 year old main character- Lorenzo Cuni, who narrates the story from 10 years after, lives in a world of his own, unable to connect with his peers or anyone except his mother, who is frantically searching for ways of helping him to fit in. A psychiatrist tells his worried mother that he “is unable to feel empathy for others. For him everything that’s outside his circle of affections doesn’t exist, has no effect on him. He believes he is special and only people as special as him can understand him.” Diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, (a condition in which people have an inflated sense of self-importance and an extreme preoccupation with themselves), he truly wishes to be “normal”, to blend in, and make friends, but it’s clear that Lorenzo doesn’t have any social skills and finds it difficult to make friends- not without want of trying. He tries to fit in by imitating his classmates. “Here is what I had to do. Imitate the dangerous ones. I wore the same things they wore. Adidas trainers, jeans with holes in them, a black hoodie. I messed up the parting in my hair and let it grow long. I even wanted to get my ear pierced but my mother forbade me. I walked like them, with my legs wide apart. I threw my backpack on the ground and kicked it around. I mimicked them discreetly.” He chooses the mimetic tactic of behaving like a fly which, by camouflaging itself as a wasp, avoids their attacks. His camouflage consists not only of mimicking his peers, but also, of talking back to teachers, not doing his homework, making rude jokes and showing off with a trumped-up self-confidence. After overhearing his school mates making plans for a week- long skiing trip, he decides to lie to his parents, telling them that he has been invited to go along. His mother is thrilled at this sign of an incipient social life and Lorenzo is thrilled too…as he plans to spend the whole week hiding in his cellar, by himself of course, with tins of sardines and tuna, his PlayStation games and science-fiction books. After she begins to drive him to the meeting place, Lorenzo starts panicking and insists she has to drop him off at a distance so as to avoid embarrassment in front of his “friends”. She reluctantly agrees, and once she is out of sight, he heads towards home. When Lorenzo is certain that his parents have left for the day, he sneaks into the cellar of the family home. It is damp and humid, loaded with old furniture, boxes and other junk, but has a bed and a bathroom. Perfect hide-out spot for a week long “vacation”. But Lorenzo’s solitude is disturbed, when his half-sister, whom he barely knows, unexpectedly unlocks the door to the cellar, and discovers his hiding place. He fears, that his secret will be unfolded, but what he doesn’t realize is that Olivia, whom is estranged from the family, has secrets of her own to keep. Turns out, that Olivia is a recovering drug addict, strung-out and desperate for money to buy drugs, plans to take refuge in the cellar herself. After some negotiations, he lets her stay, and does his best to ignore her cries of agony as she suffers from withdrawal symptoms. But when her condition gets worst, he finally decides to take the best care of her as he can. It seems that the author closely observes and analyses the dynamics that develop between Olivia and Lorenzo, and it appears that one cannot stand the other, but at the same time need each other for emotional support. Otherwise, Ammaniti doesn’t give us too much about them: that would weaken the drama in the cellar. This story has a balance that is just about right. By maintaining a certain level of tension throughout, the author created a short, but very intriguing book. The story’s real strength lies more in what is not said: Why is Lorenzo so attached and so sentimental about his mother? Why does he have such a hard time fitting in at school? Why is Olivia estranged from the family? These questions allow room for the reader to figure things out and to read between the lines. This might be a highly condensed story, but it deals with important themes such as family, shame, addictions, and our need to be accepted by our peers and loved by those closest to us. During adolescence, peers play a large part in a young person’s life and typically replace family as the center of a teen’s social and leisure activities. Some kids give in to peer pressure because they want to be liked, to fit in, or because they worry that other kids may make fun of them if they don’t go along with the group. Lorenzo is no sociopath; he is intelligent, talented, shy, and, of course, misunderstood boy who just tries to fit in with the crowd without being noticed and judged.
Sometimes it is the shortest books which pack the biggest punch-and this is especially true for the novel “Me and You”. Even though it isn’t easy to relate or understand the main characters Lorenzo and Olivia, but their story manages to stay interesting to the very last page. This novel takes a day or two to read, but will stay in your memory forever. It is an international bestseller and is also being made into a film by Bernardo Bertolucci. If the film will be as good as the book, it is worth seeing.